Keeping The Negative People At Bay- I normally like to look at the positive things in life but I feel this is a issue that has to be addressed by everyone in their lives I also feel that how you deal with it can make or destroy your life and outlook on it. It is well known that the people you are surrounded by mostly affect how you act think and feel. The reason for this is unconsciously you start to take in their behavioural patterns even if you don’t always realise it. Yes it is true normally you have the average income of the 5 people you surround yourself most with. So if you are surrounding yourself with successful people you will take in a lot of ideas and mindset from them even without sometimes realising that you are?
If you are like me you are probably saying but my friend is blah or my dad is blah and indeed that will be true for lots of us. I have a friend who lives with one of the most negative people around they are pretentious, self righteous and do absolutely nothing with their life except what they where programmed to do by a low living community. Even if I we have had a few small differences in the past my friend and I think similarly about quite a few things. It is quite obvious there is some jealousy going on there as my friends partner tries to control them like a puppy dog,I think it is insecurity and lack of being able to show any love is their issue. But that is something they must deal with I also have had some issues myself in the past from relationships but have decided to move on from them.
Now I can chose to see my friend or my parents etc. And of course you are going to unless you have had a bad family crisis etc. But if you know these people you are surrounded by are broke and miserable and will do nothing but criticise you and feel insecure. This is not YOUR PROBLEM.. but if this is all you surround yourself with I can GUARANTEE YOU.. It will become your problem so find another circle of friends positive people,successful business people, persons who have successful relationships and increase your time with these types of people this will help you to grow. Richer,Healthier,Happier,Stronger if your relatives or old friends give off lots of negativity spend less time exposing yourself to it. Turn the conversation round to something positive who knows how much benefit you can rub off on them.
Unfortunately you are always going to always have to deal with some negative, nasty or dishonest or two faced people. Jim Rohn once said there are only a few bad people in the world. They just seem to move around a lot so you will come across them from time to time. Forget those people they have enough problems of their own without giving them any focus just move on past them. I am a great believer in what goes around comes around miserable people will pay a very high price no need for us to join in. They are setting their own sail.
Find people who inspire you empower you make you happy. Learn to build better relationships. Learn how to add value to peoples lives if you want to become an expert in anything find the top person in that field and learn from them. If someone is not a millionaire then don’t learn from them how to be a millionaire. If someone has a Cra* relationship Don’t Take Relationship Advice From Them. If you stick to these principles of success you will get where you want to go much faster. Just make sure you know where you want to go as it could take you 100 years without finding what you are looking for if you don’t know where your destination is, when you leave make sure you pick a destination before you set your sails. And above all remember to keep the negative people at bay..
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